• you don’t feel ready
• your body says ‘go’ but your heart says ‘no’
• you don’t think it’s right yet
• you’d only be doing it to keep up
• it’s illegal under 16

None. The only method with a 0% failure rate and total protection against most STIs (except AIDs caught through non-sexual methods, and Herpes passed on by fingers). Gives you time to find out who you are and what you want first.

• Gives you time to find the right person to have sex with. Makes you normal – 80% of girls and 75% of boys under 16 haven’t had sex.
• Makes family life easier (Mum & Dad often find the thought of their children having sex v. scary).

  

  No full sex. That doesn’t mean no tickles / cuddles / squeezes / touching / kissing / stroking... or imagination.