abortion * abstinence * combined pill * condoms * diaphragm * emergency contraception * IUD * progesterone-only pill / injection * rhythm method * withdrawal *Female sterilisation * male sterilisation *
Abortion
Most important fact: nobody likes having an abortion, and many abortions are avoidable by using the ‘emergency contraceptive pill’ within 72 hours of having unprotected sexual intercourse.
Not using emergency contraception
if you are worried that you could be pregnant, is ‘burying your head in the
sand’ and hoping for the best. Get down to your family doctor, or any other
family doctor, or your local family planning clinic or your local ‘emergency
room’ NOW and get yourself the ‘emergency contraceptive pill’.
Facts about abortions
There are few subjects which raise more emotion in people than that of abortion. The arguments rage backwards and forwards from ‘it is murder’ to ‘it is the right of every woman to have an abortion if she wants one’.
These arguments all have some truth in them, but dealing with the facts:
Further facts are:
You’ll need to think carefully about:
What your financial situation is – are you still living with your parents etc
The attitude of your parents and how supportive they will be whatever you decide (though you may choose not to tell them)
Whatever you decide they’ll be ups and downs
You may, if you decide to have an abortion, have your baby adopted, or keep your baby, feel sad afterwards. This doesn’t mean that you made the wrong decision – it is just that there are no absolute rights or wrongs in all this and whichever you decide there are upsides and downsides. You may:
think that it is alright to have an abortion, but when it comes to it, find it hard to go through with
think that abortion is all wrong, but when it comes to it, having an abortion is the better option
If you want to find out about getting an abortion (even if you don’t really think that you want to go through it):
The abortion pill:
The suction, or vacuum aspiration method:
Both these methods are very safe and are unlikely to lead to any complications like not being able to have a baby later on.
For late abortions after 12 weeks:
If you think that might be pregnant, and think that you want to have an abortion – act straight away – don’t wait – because the earlier that you have an abortion, the safer and easier it is.
You can get pregnant again two weeks after you have had an abortion, so that even if sex is the last thing you are thinking of, make sure you get some good advice about contraception.
Family Planning Association - for details of local clinics, call the Contraceptive Education Service.
England - 0845 310 1334
Scotland - 0141 576 5088
N. Ireland - 02890 325488
Wales - 0845 6001213
Brook Clinic http://www.brook.org.uk 0800 0185023
British Pregnancy Advisory Service - 01564 793225
Adoption UK
- Support and encouragement for established adoptive parents and long
term foster carers, and help and advice for potential adopters.
01327 260295 (Mon - Fri 11.00am - 4.00pm)
BAAF
(British Agencies for Adoption and Fostering) - A
central agency for organisations involved in adoption and fostering. Publishes
useful information leaflets and books about various aspects of adoption. Offers
advice on tracing.
(020) 7593 2000 (Mon - Fri 9.00am - 5.00pm)