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Bullying - very important Viv
I hate my life! Today I was in PE, and a girl told me to come over to her, so I did. Then she pulled my trousers down in front of all the other girls. So I went mad, and I swore at her, and flipped in front of my Head of Year. I cried my eyes out, and i don't want to go back to school now.
Oh well, my Mum is soon going to live with her boyfriend, and so I'm going with her now! I want to make a whole new start, because I've taken **** from this girl, and other people for years, and now i've had enough.
And now I'm going to go and look on the internet for Black Magic and spells and I'm going to curse her.
Well, can anyone help me feel any better, and think of ways to curse her? Reply
re: Bullying - very important Host - Charlie
There's no such thing as black magic. Witchcraft is a religion, a way of life. Magic is skill that comes from practice, not some kind of cult for people seeking revenge.
The best thing you can do is tell her what you think of her, perhaps she doesn't realise how much she's hurting you. A lot of people do things because they're 'Just a laugh, but for the victim they're not. Your Head of Year obviously saw what happened, so why not talk to him/her about this girl. You school should have an anti-bullying policy, and the school have an obligation to protect you from bullies. If they fail to do so then you can take it to the LED.
Talk to your tutor or Head of Year about setting up some sort of peer counselling scheme to help people that are being bullied, and to give people who feel insecure somewhere to go where they'll be safe.
There's no doubt that this girl is being cruel and horrible to you, but ask yourself why she's doing this. Is it because of you, or because she has problems herself, and she's trying to make herself feel better by taking it out on someone else.
If talking to your school doesn't do any good, then you have the opportunity to move. Maybe getting away from her and making a fresh start wouldn't be a bad idea, but still talk to the school. Even if you go it isn't fair to make someone else suffer because of her, and she needs to be helped to understand how upset she's making you feel, and why she feels that she has to do this. Reply
