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4) go for it..ya?no? Anon  

I've been fooling around with my bf for some time now, and I feel as I'm ready to have sex. But I keep on having silent wars with myself. I want to do it and feel ready, but I also want to be a virgin until I get married and save it for that special someone. I don't know.. I have mixed feelings.. can you give me some feed back from both sides I suppose? Reply

re: go for it..ya?no? natty

Only do it when you feel totally ready, and let's face it, if you’re asking yourself these questions deep down you mustn’t be ready. Reply

re: go for it..ya?no? shelia

Obviously the indecision is your answer, err on the side of caution and say 'no' for now. At the same time virginity before marriage is overrated - save yourself for someone special: YOU! You'll know when its right if you listen and trust yourself and remain steady in the conflict between boyfriends pressure and society’s 'good' girl mythology. Be true to thy self. Reply

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