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1) Should I let him? sweety

My b/f wants to finger me but I'm scared if I say no he'll dump me what should I do? Reply

re:  Should I let him? Cookie

The decision is completely up to you. Letting him finger you is illegal if you are under 16 - with or without consent.

If you aren't sure that you want him do do it, then tell him that you aren't ready. If he loves you then he'll wait for you and respect your wishes. If he doesn't understand then he isn't worth it and you're better off without him.

If you do decide to go ahead then make sure that you are 100% sure that you want to go through with it. Talk to him about it first. Also, remember that you without the right to tell him to stop at any time, and that by law he must. Remember to be careful, and tell him to be too - there is a chance that it will hurt, and if he isn't gentle then it could be a lot more unnecessary pain than you need.

My best advice would be to think for yourself and not let him influence you in any way. Remember you have plenty of time - don't be rushed into such and important decision which you may regret.

REMEMBER YOU ALWAYS HAVE THE RIGHT TO SAY NO. Reply