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10) Am I a Slapper? Miss Me
Ok, so I'm really upset, people keep saying stuff about me for ages now. Like slapper, slut and all that.

I know I've done things I'm not proud of, but it hasn't ever been my fault. Boys tell me they love me, etc... and I fall for it; once they say it I think they mean it (am I just gullible?). And I do what they want (because I love them (maybe I fall in love too easily?). I know I shouldn’t, but I want to make them happy in case they don’t love me anymore. 

I haven’t actually slept around or anything; I’ve slept with two people only, given bj's to three and given handjobs to five. I’m 16.

Well, anyway I’ve been with my boyfriend for 8 months now he loves me loads and I love him, he knows what I've done it and who with and he doesn’t care so why do they? I don’t get it? Why can’t they leave the past alone? PLUS there’s gals at my school I know that have done more then me but they call me it too the only ones who don’t are my close mates and my boyfriend and his mates. Reply

re: Am I a Slapper? Samantha

If your close mates, boyfriend and his mates don't call you a slapper then that’s all that counts really. Don't listen to those people who call you a slapper. Reply

re: Am I a Slapper? Cookie

It's a tough life. Boys can be with as many girls as they want, and keep their dignity. Girls just get labelled as  tarts and slappers. Well, your boyfriend obviously trusts you an understands you, and that's what's important. It sounds like you have a close group of friends around you, and just ignore the rest. Hold your head up high and be proud of who you are. Everyone makes mistakes, and does things that they're not proud of, but what's important is that you learn from them. And what have you learnt? Maybe get to know boys a bit better, like you know your boyfriend now, before you start doing things that you may later regret. Reply

re: Am I a Slapper? Nutty

As long as your good mates and boyfriend are there for you and care about you then you should ignore the others try not to listen to them or say something back. I know it’s easier said than done, but it could help; stand up to them and tell them that you are not taking it anymore and show them that what they say will not hurt you! Some people are bullies and get pleasure out of hurting others! Reply